'That's A Lot Of Food!': Arrogant Boyfriend Polices Girlfriend's Eating Habits & Refuses To Comprehend The Idea That Their Bodies Have Different Nutritional Needs

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elina lee
Feb 3, 2023 6:00 PM EST

Does everyone remember Cole and Zanab from the most recent 'Love is Blind' season that aired last year? Welp, we just had a flashback. If you know this dysfunctional pair then you know that one of their biggest problems in the relationship was that he constantly commented on her weight and what she ate. Sure, the show may have censored most of his policing moments and didn't make it that big of a deal. But anyone with body issues knows that it doesn't take much to trigger us into a spiral of insecurities and complexes. 

Welp, today we're bringing you a story of the most arrogant, ignorant, and overall worst boyfriend we've ever heard of. Alright, that may have been a little exaggerated but we're sure you'll understand our point of view after you've had a read for yourself. All we can say is men really need to step it up. We're tired of all these tone-deaf low lives. 

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    Font - Posted by u/Recognition_Bitter 20 hours ago AITA for commenting on how much my gf ate?
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    Font - Me (23m) and my gf (23f) have been dating 3 years, and we have been living together for 1. Some relevant context, when we first met she had a little extra weight on her, but I didn't ever really notice it and I found her very attractive. Fast forward to around 2 years ago, she got serious about getting into better shape and made significant changes to her lifestyle, particularly diet. The weight came off really quickly and in total she's lost about 25 pounds. She's 5'4" and now weighs aro
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    Font - While that's all great, since she first started losing weight she's expressed to me that's she's now terrified of gaining weight again and being "fat", even though I've told her that I never thought she was fat before and definitely isn't now. She keeps pretty close tabs on calories and gets very stressed out if she feels she's eaten too much throughout the day. I know it isn't a great state of mind, but I don't think it's serious because it doesn't really affect her functioning in life.
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    'She keeps pretty close tabs on calories and gets very stressed out if she feels she's eaten too much throughout the day. I know it isn't a great state of mind, but I don't think it's serious because it doesn't really affect her functioning in life.' 

    It's the gaslighting for us 

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    Font - Now for the current situation. She's been very frustrated about the little bit of "pouch" she has on her stomach, that she doesn't understand why it hasn't gone away. We work out together every other day, and she's told me that she tries to eat 1200 calories a day or less to try and lose the last bit of fat and get a flatter stomach. A couple days ago she told me that she's been reading and thinks she's probably actually been eating too little and is going to now try to eat 1400 calories
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    Font - It was kinda surprising to see her eat so much so I just made the observation "that's a lot of food." She gave me an upset look and said she's hungry, to which I replied "I'm not hungry and I've only eaten a hotdog today" (which was true).
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    You ate a hotdog today and you're going to tell her something over a salad???? The audacity of these men! 

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    Font - I didn't say that to be a jerk, I just kinda didn't understand how she could've been hungry when I wasn't hungry and I'm 6′ 185 pounds. It just kinda caught me off guard, that was all, I didn't mean anything by it. Anyways, she got kinda sad and said ok, that she wouldn't eat anything else until dinner. We've both kinda been avoiding each other since then, and I can definitely tell she feels hurt. Personally, I think she's being too sensitive. But AITA?
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    Rectangle - lihzee 20 hr. ago Judge, Jury, and Excretioner [324] YTA. You know she's worried about her weight, and you felt the need to say that? JFC. What is wrong with you?
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    Font - Most_Acanthisitta467 · 19 hr. ago Over veggies no less.
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    Font - LadyBangarang 13 hr. ago ● "She was hungry, but I wasn't! My brain just couldn't handle the paradox! I needed answers!" What a tool.
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    Font - Saltyseabanshee Asshole Enthusiast [6] 10 hr. ago It's almost like she's in a different body, and has different needs!!!!
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    Human body - Professional-Cap4186 14 hr. ago Meanwhile he was eating a very healthy hotdog.
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    Font - TheDudette840 12 hr. ago Partassipant [1] That's the part that got me. Everything she consumed is arguably healthy. Bro ate mystery meat, like... stfu
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    Font - Isinmyvain 10 hr. ago It's never actually been about being healthy with these people. It's about controlling women in every way they can
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    Font - blondewhiteiced mocha 13 hr. ago . Really concerned for OP's GF too. If she feels like she has to justify her eating habits to him, that is NOT good.
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